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At the University of Oklahoma, few traditions are as instantly recognizable as the fight song Boomer Sooner. The melody sparks energy, pride, and a sense of shared identity. It unites thousands of voices in a single rhythm of momentum and hope. But behind that familiar tune is a complicated history—one that, when examined honestly, offers a powerful lesson about healing, accountability, and change. 🎶 Boomer Sooner, Boomer Sooner…  🎶That familiar refrain carries more meaning

In today’s fast-paced, reactive world, many people hear words without truly listening. Conversations often become about preparing a response rather than understanding the person speaking. Over time, this pattern can lead to miscommunication, emotional distance, and unresolved conflict. At Change Pointe Counseling & Consulting , we emphasize the importance of listening to understand—not to respond—because true listening is foundational to emotional health, strong relationships

Let’s face it: mental health counseling isn’t just for people who’ve hit rock bottom or those who binge-watch therapy scenes on TV and think, “Hey, maybe I should try that.” It’s a vital, often life-changing process that helps folks navigate the messy, beautiful chaos of being human. If you’ve ever wondered what mental health counseling involves, buckle up. I’m here to walk you through the essentials with a mix of warmth, a dash of dry humor, and a sprinkle of practical advic

The beginning of a new year invites us to pause. It’s a rare moment when the world collectively takes a breath and considers what’s next. New beginnings don’t demand perfection or grand declarations—they simply ask for willingness. Willingness to reflect, to hope, and to believe that change is possible. Change doesn’t require a complete overhaul of your life. It starts quietly, often with a single decision: I want something different.  That decision alone is powerful. It open

The holiday season can bring joy, nostalgia, and sometimes a touch of stress. Between family expectations, financial pressure, and emotional ups and downs, it’s easy to lose sight of your own well-being. Taking care of yourself during this season isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Start by setting realistic expectations . The holidays don’t need to be perfect to be meaningful. Focus on what matters most—connection, peace, and gratitude. Whether it’s sharing a meal, enjoying quiet

Let’s be honest. Life can feel like a rollercoaster designed by a caffeine-fueled squirrel. One minute, you’re on top of the world, and the next, you’re wondering if your brain is secretly plotting against you. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just plain “meh,” you’re not alone. That’s where the benefits of counseling come in, like a trusty GPS for your mental and emotional road trip. Mental health isn’t just about avoiding a meltdown in the grocery store (though t

Mental health is like the weather—sometimes sunny, sometimes stormy, and occasionally downright unpredictable. We all have our off days, but when those feelings stick around longer than a bad haircut, it might be time to pay attention. Mental health conditions are more common than you think, and they affect people from all walks of life. Today, I’m diving into some of the most frequent mental health conditions, how they impact daily life, and what you can do if you or someone

Let’s be honest. Life can feel like a rollercoaster designed by a caffeine-fueled squirrel. One moment, you’re on top of the world; the next, you’re questioning if your plants secretly judge you for forgetting to water them. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or just plain “meh,” you’re not alone. That’s where the magic of mental health counseling steps in. It’s like having a GPS for your brain’s messy neighborhood, guiding you through the twists and turns with a little

Let’s be honest. Life can feel like a rollercoaster designed by a caffeine-fueled squirrel. One minute, you’re on top of the world, and the next, you’re wondering if your brain has taken a vacation without telling you. If you’ve ever felt like your thoughts are hosting a chaotic party you didn’t RSVP to, you’re not alone. That’s where the magic of therapy steps in. Today, I’m diving into how embracing the benefits of therapy services can genuinely enhance your life. Spoiler

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